My husband and I have been married for 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship I found out that he was texting his ex girlfriend. He was sending her dirty pictures and sending dirty text. Tho nothing happened between them I still felt betrayed. I confronted him about it all when he proposed to me. He told me that he wasnt sure what he wanted before and thats why he was doing that. He said that he had realized that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and no one else and thats when he proposed. I havent noticed anything since. He erased everyone out of his phone that I didnt know. Now eight months later, I think something may be happening again. My husband drives a truck. I know most people say not to trust truck drivers but they are not all cheaters. I have a few friends that dont cheat that drive a truck. But anyways, he went to Austin texas Monday morning and had to stay the night down there to get a load coming home. He came home for a few hours before he had to go pick up another load. When he was leaving I kinda had a weird feeling about it. This morning he came to pick me up to go with him to pick up another load. I picked up his phone to call my mom and check on her. I looked in his dialed numbers and noticed a number I did not recognize that he had called at 1:15 am. He had told me when I talked to him at 12:30 that he was asleep. He was also texting this number. I confronted him about it and he never told me who it was. I then asked who it was and he said it was a 34 yr old woman that he had gotten the number from his sister to make friends. I dont believe a word of it. He says he would never cheat on me and that he has done more for me that any girl he has dated before. I think he is just trying to make me feel crappy about confronting him and I told him exactly that. Can someone give me some advice??
Posted 04 Feb 09 in The Truth About Cheating :: Infidelity Talk
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